This is mainly written for the couples out there who are looking for a single lady swinger, but the tips are relevant for single males as well.
First off you need to know that it is just not going to be as easy as you would like.
It is about as likely as catching HIV from oral sex. Especially if you are looking for a bi lady who has long blonde hair, 36C, has a nice tight ass, has a single bi girlfriend, has no baggage and wants to do both of you exclusively (assuming you are a couple). It is statistically possible but unlikely.
On the other hand if you are looking for a divorced mom with a couple of kids, mortgage up her butt, a few extra pounds, pretty but not super model material. She may not be perfect but she still knows how to have fun, you are more likely to succeed.
Unless of course you are independently wealthy, own a Ferrari, and don’t mind paying for all their dinners and entertainment, then you should be able to find lots of single women even if you act like an idiot.
Pretty much all the single women Ted and I have met in the swinging lifestyle have had their share of baggage. They only want to do me (actually we have had that situation come up with couples too, funny thing though they don’t tell us that at the start, they just make it obvious once things start to happen). Sorry, Ted and I are in this together, for each other’s enjoyment.
Single women don’t need swinger’s magazines or swinger’s websites to meet someone. They can go into almost any busy bar and pick up whoever they want. They are in control. That is not to say that they don’t use magazines or websites to meet people, but the ones I have seen generally do the responding because as soon as they put up an ad or profile they get inundated with replies, as I am sure you can imagine.
Single women are the most sought after prize in the lifestyle, and so rare that they are often referred to as a Unicorn. But unlike the Unicorn they do actually exist.
So make sure you remember how much of a prize she is when you do meet one, and treat her special. Take care to remember that you should never neglect your own partner though, or you will pay for that later on (jealousy is no fun). This goes for both the men and the women out there.
So for all the single men out there, since you have now read my article on how to pick up single women for couples, then you need to realize that it is going to be even harder for you, as a single man, to find these elusive sexual women than it is for the couples, but it is possible.